So I recently started working with a Life Coach (yes, me and a coach) surprisingly empowering I must say. But working around my goals in life, one of the goals was to find me a life partner. At the beginning I was pretty clear about my need for a man in my life, but as the sessions have went on I have had to re look at my goal and have come to a conclusion that this was not an intrinsic need, but rather an extrinsic force and pressure from people to have someone in my life.
I have made peace with the fact that yes I am single, but also not keen on looking, but just in case like in the book and movie Eat Pray and Love the universe will send one my way, just because.... I have decided to take steps in that direction. My first action is to create a vision board, with all the activities I would like to do with a potential life partner and the words (descriptive of feelings) that I would like to feel and for him to feel when we eventually find each other.
Sitting here writing this post I am sitting with a pile of magazines trying to cut out happy couples who read together, hike together, shop together and still smiling through the process 'its very hard I tell you! all I can find is the insurance and medical aid white couples....and they look nauseatingly happy. Some of the words I have been working with are trust, freedom, love, happiness, confidence and sex (girl gotta have some) before my mother buys a chastity belt for me, God knows she is already praying for one, and she wants to keep the key .....
So by next week I shall have my vision board, with words, which I will stand in front of and do affirmations and hopefully sometime in the near future I will update your guys on the progress of finding either my life partner or myself.
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